Playing devils advocate....why do you have a need to text in a theater? What if I chose to turn on a flashlight? Light up a cigarette? Why is your compulsive need to text more important than the other patrons who simply want to watch a movie they paid better than $10 each to watch?
For the same reason someone cannot go two hours without texting...there is no good reason. A little courtesy and consideration for others is missing.
There usually is a purpose to texting. I'm not saying you should be doing it in the theater, but there is a purpose. Turning on a flashlight, not so much (unless you dropped something. But who carries a flashlight?).
I conceed that a flashlight maybe a poor example. The point was have a little consideration. If you don't know how to dim your screen, it does appear as a bright light in a theater. As for a purpose to texting, not so sure unless you are down with the FB tradition of posting up a pic of the beer you just opened. Sure, the messages do convey info, but not all of it is anywhere near earth shattering important.
As a parent, it should be even more obvious to you than it is to me. Sending a text to check that your daughter made it home safely, for instance, shouldn't turn into a capital offense in a theater.
I give up. I have not once condoned the shooting of the man texting. According to published reports, the shooter first asked that the guys stop, in accordance with the theater rules. The deceased could have gone to the lobby or explained the situation and continued. So far I have not seen reports saying he did either. Most people would understand if there were a problem at home. As a parent, I would have gone to lobby and called to find out what was going on rather than rely on texting.
Just a hypothetical scenario. I could see it happening... Dad: "Hey, mom and I are at a movie. Are you on your way home?" waits for response. Checks phone Daughter: "Yeah, I'm leaving in a minute. I have to stop for gas." Guy behind him - "Hey buddy, no texting." Dad: "OK, be careful and let me know when you get home." waits for response. Checks phone Daughter: "OK." Guy behind him - "Hey buddy, I already said, 'no texting.' I'm going to tell the manager." Guy leaves. Guy goes out to lobby. Tattles. Comes back pissed off, probably mumbling passive aggressively where the dad can hear it. Sits down. Dad turns around: "Hey man - I'm just texting my daughter to make sure she gets home. No reason to get upset, the movie hasn't even started yet." Guy: "Rules are rules, Brosef. No texting, or I'll give you something to text about." Dad: "Listen Deputy Fife, I told you I'm texting my daughter to make sure she gets home. I've already put it away, now back off..." Escalates from there.
Rudeness (texting) should get you expelled from the theater. Maybe even punched in the face if things go too far. Not shot.
So in your alternate universe, the two key differences I see are that the aggressor neither leaves the theater to report to management, nor does he shoot the texter. Everything else happens, including the same number of texts.
No, actually I leave me phone in the car for movies but if I was waiting for an important text from my kid then yes all bets are off. If it was during the movie then I could see the uproar (not shooting someone though) Old people annoy the shit out of me on the roads but I don't shoot them, at least not yet.
In just about any professional theatre cell phone use will get you put out. Another thing I like about professional theatre is once the show starts no more admittance. This model of business is steeltoe approved. :up:
What the hell is a professional theater? Is it just for you and your ilk (people who studied Shakespeare and shit)?