Not totally on topic but I found this heartwarming.....how military wives show each other support when the hubby is deployed http://imgur.com/gallery/elzS9
When I was in Groton, CT in ~89-92, there was a boomer widow who sometimes would put a certain teddy bear in a certain window of the house she lived in on base housing. If you knew about the teddy bear, come on over, the door's unlocked.
You know who the real motherfuckers are in that? The Jodies. Those sons of bitches know these women are married. Hell, most of them are probably military.
Mehhh, that's hating the player instead of the game if you ask me.... Not that I'm making excuses for them because they're part of the problem too, but Jodies' not the one who's married. In the very literal sense yes, they are the fuckers of mothers (see what I did there? ) in this case. But she's the one who has all the power to refuse or accept another man's shlong up in her. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, not men. Even average looking women these days can snap their fingers and have a gaggle of thirsty dudes hanging on her waiting to have a bone thrown to them..... so the majority of the blame should fall squarely on her shoulders IMHO.
Didn't say that it doesn't make them scum....what I am saying is don't absolve the person who is most at blame for the wrongdoing, again IMO.
it's not her fault. in fact it's the husband/boyfriend's fault...ALWAYS. if being managed correctly, her eye and pussy would not wander to begin with...
I was trying to find proof of that exchange being a farce, but I got lost in a yahoo answers thread on porn addiction. Apparently that's cheating too.