I'm torn on this one, Dits. As the dad of a girl, I'd wanna know. If my true friend found out through the grapevine, and didn't tell me, we wouldn't be that good of friends anymore. It's just sex. Tough spot. Good luck!
Totally different situation to me - if we're talking private tapes released by an ex that's one thing - tell and help get the bastard. Her making csh for porn is another entirely.
If you don't tell him you should re-evaluate your "best Friendship" You gonna put your tail between your legs when he's crying on your shoulder about his daughter being dead, or worse? Grow some balls and go talk to your buddy about what can be done to get his baby out of that mess.
What mess? Not every girl who does pron is fucked up. It's nobody's business but hers. And I have an 11 year old daughter. Would I want her doing porn? Of coarse not but I'll be damned if I'm gonna judge her for doin something whrn I'm a god damn sexual deviant. The only thing I can do as a parent is keep her well educated and able to make sound decisions based on rational thinking. If that thought process leads her to porn... Well... I guess I fucked up somewhere but that's life.
Or she made a bad decision for $$ and it comes back to bite her down the road due to immature short-sightedness?
If he's your friend, tell him. Better he hears it from a friend while he's cool and sober than if it comes up during an argument with somebody else.
Obviously not. But I have to try and make sure she never needs to see that as an option But she's an adult and can fuck up her life if she wants. God knows Ive been there. I'll just have to be there to help her pick up the pieces. No matter what happens. If my friend told me I'd forever question his motive for doing so.
I have a daughter in her early twenties. At first I was thinking I would want to know. But the more I think about it, I really would rather not hear about it. Unless it was from her. But I wouldn't want some dude regardless of who he is telling me about it.
Nobodys business but hers? Sounds like its plastered on the internet so its everybodys business. If she didnt want people in her "business" she shouldn't do porn ha. If hes a good friend to you. You need to step forward and tell him. What if she broke and just up on hard times with to much pride to ask her parents for help? Dad deserves to know so he can have a conversation with his daughter and make sure everythings ok.
Pull up the vid on your phone and hand it over to him. Seriously? I got nothing, no clue how you should proceed. It would really depend on your relationship with this guy.