Would you tell one of your best friends...

man,tough either way. Is it really fitlthy stuff? If it's just regular ole boobie stuff then maybe just leave it be. But honestly if shes doing hardcore stuff it can possibly mean shes also into the whole drug scene that goes along with it.

Id tell him

 

I'd rather have him pissed at me for telling him than for knowing and keeping it hidden from him or flat out lying and saying I had no clue once he does find out. And he WILL find out. If he's truly that good of a friend, how is this really a question?

 

Does the daughter still live at home with the parents? If not, I say that's your release from any moral responsibility. Just let things take their natural course.
If she still daddy's girl, that's more difficult. Even if she's 18. Good luck, whatever you decide.

p.s. ask your twins if the video is any good. It's a small town. They've seen it.

 

What if she doesn't even smoke? Let alone do drugs. Her choice, her business.

 

I take it back.... yes, I'd let him know..... via an anonymous letter.

 

Him knowing isn't going to change what she does. If she was worried about what her dad would think if he ever found out she wouldn't have done it in the first place. He will become aware at some point. She is an adult and made the choice. There's nothing he can do to stop her. I wouldn't tell him jack shit.

 

Is it like multiple videos, like a career, or some amateur stuff a boyfriend/girlfriend or ex put up?

 

I agree with if you really feel like you're doing him a favor by telling him, do it anonymously.

 

I would also respond to them with, " why are you telling me this and that it's none of your business.
Maybe the dad already knows. Why put yourself in the middle.

 

Alright, I'll admit, I pressed on the words to see if there was a URL....

 

This may be a stupid question, but these days does the daughter even know it is out there? Could have been a private video and she doesn't know.

 

Seriously, not even kidding. At least porn is up front and honest. The amount of girls (of all age ranges and backgrounds) out there that areprostituting themselves in various capacities would boggle your mind...on Instagram, Seek Arrangements, Backpage, craigslist, dating sites etc etc etc....I'm talking like average everyday girls at college sucking old man cock to pay for their partying lifestyles and shit. And I swear social media outlets just super accelerated it over the last ~5-7 years.

Shit even Fox news just did a piece on this: http://www.foxnews.com/entertainmen...-insta-models-who-are-really-prostitutes.html


To quote Crazy Earl from Full Metal Jacket: "These are great days we're living, bros!"

...and this is now, just imagine what society will be like in another 15-20 years

 

I'm with Sean. What's your endgame?

She's an adult, it's legal, and you're not involved at all, so.... drop it.

 

As a lawyer you should advise her to make sure that when she is being paid for sex that there must always be a camera around. Otherwise, it's prostitution and she could be arrested for it.

 

I would have called him as soon as I found out. Be pissed at me. I would hope my friends would give me the same respect. I treat my friends like family. Man up and deal with the bullshit.

 

A long time ago I was in a very serious relationship with someone, and her ex posted up some private pics of her. Buddy of mine saw and called me. I hated that phone call, but respected the hell out of him for it. I told her, she lawyered up and got them taken down and I think dude got in some trouble too.

Doesn't sound like the same situation, but the principles remain. Tell him. Otherwise you're gonna feel like shit every time you're around him.

 

I think it depends on the level of friendship with the guy. If you are just acquaintances and he is kind of a dick like you hinted at I probably wouldn't say anything. If he is one of your besties and I mean like the one or two other dudes who would kill for you then I may find a way to tell the guy. It would also depend on what type. If her a-hole ex-boyfriend made video and put it out there without her knowledge I would definitely tell the guy. If she is into drugs and heading to a really dark place then I probably would say something too. Tough call for sure.

 

Ask your buddy would do in this situation.
Then tell him that it is HIS situation.

 

Just stick an anonymous note on his door and be done with it. If I was the dad Im sure as shit I would want someone to tell me.