I couldn't imagine continuing to bang an ex. If my wife and I ever split, no way I'm running the risk of getting into the same situation twice.
In my experience not completely ending any and all communication (obviously not possible in the case of a marriage with kids) only serves to prolong the time for you to move on, heal completely, and find someone that you enjoy being with. It ended for a reason. Let it be done and move on with your life.
You know why people need help getting back on their feet? So they can run off again and do stupid shit.
like inserting a bunch of other penises and and lady tongues into her vagina while married to you. let that sink in for a little... she certainly did.
usually not AFTER she tells you she loves you and says "I do"... hell, usually not the very next day after the other guy either. when you get burnt (figuratively or literally) don't say we didn't warn you. you could at least let her period give the leftover juices a natural flush first... won't help on the STD front but at least its a mental state. defending a cheater are we? definitely gonna cave...
I didn't read this thread when it first started or in the four months following. I read the whole thing start to finish this morning at work. What a fucking disappointment.
You think these stats are accurate? http://www.statisticbrain.com/marriage-statistics First Marriage Survival (Probability of lasting more than 10 years) Probability that a first marriage will survive 10 years - 6.6 % - 1 in 15 Holy shit is that some bad odds.
And then there's this: " I damn sure wanted to F*** you, but you haven't been feeling it. I want to F*** a girl. Now seems to be the right time."