My folks had a couple of acres with a bunch of pine trees. Our continual task was the raking and removal of the straw, it amazes me people get paid now to come put pine straw on yards. I think one reason kids don't go outside is that people don't have yards of any size. My kids spend a ton of time outdoors, but we have several acres with a pond, a huge open grassy area and also some shady areas. They also get to engage in fun activities liking helping cut grass, run leaf blowers, keep the firewood bin loaded, feed the chipper and anything else that needs to be done.
I make my kids play outside. When they're thirsty, I make them drink out of the hose. They think I'm a caveman.
The first time I went back to the old neighborhood in FL as an adult, I was stunned to see how small the yards actually were. I remembered the goal lines being much further apart.
I used to bicycle around the streets in my neighborhood as a kid, a lot. But then I'm reading the news, and there is a woman getting arrested for letting her kid ride around on the street on her bicycle for child-endangerment, and they lived in a dead-end street. Maybe a bigger back story, but maybe not. Another kid gets run-over by a drunk driver. One shoots his buddy with dad's gun. Another gets molested by some sick m'fer. I don't have any kids myself, but it seems to me like a lot of things I did as a kid would currently get my parents in trouble if I did them today as a kid. Maybe I'm just more aware now. Hell, I remember being handed a .22 rifle to have fun with (after serious safety talks and demonstrations + supervision of course). Plus, we didn't have the internet, tablets, etc. If you wanted to play with other kids, you had to go outside to see other kids. Now you can do that from the couch. Exercise wasn't the point when I was a kid, it was just the play time that meant anything. I don't think getting rid of video games, computers, etc. would be a smart idea though. While not educational directly, they do teach kids a lot about computer interfaces that will prepare them to openly except new technologies as an adult. I've seen little kids setup voice networks and lead dozens of other people in coordinated game play. I know a lot of adults who could not accomplish the same type of leadership and technical expertise. I would think the idea of Exercise (not just play) would need to become a concept to kids. Then again, I don't have kids, so my thoughts are worth about....squat.
At one point we had a 10ftt tall half pipe in my back yard. We always had dozens of kids around. Between that and bikes, motorcycles, trails, bb guns, bow and arrows and such it is amazing that I am still alive.
All of you remember that the grumpy old man down the street said these same things about you... right?
I blame the parents of kids these days....Get home from work. Turn on the TV. Watch the same goddamn shows the same day on the same hour week after week after week....... Parents used to be out mowing the lawn and riding bikes - leading by example.
Glad to see I wasn't the only one thinking a "Mrs. Robinson with a bullwhip" scenario from his response.
What the hell are you talking about. I have never seen my dad or mother on a bicycle, I was the one that mowed the lawn, my mom was permanently affixed to her rocking chair watching General Hospital and my dad was always at work. And I was never in the house.
this right here is why I got yelled at by my wife for not watching my 9 year old son take out the trash. she literally stood on the porch and watched him walk the 30 ft to the garbage can and back to the house. this was at 8 pm. last night. we do not live in a bad neighborhood. also why he and his friends are not allowed to ride their bikes unsupervised or go down to the park.
Mine too. And never get his own coffee, change the channel, or adjust the rabbit ears. He did teach me to weld and work on cars. He is really a cool dude though. Always there when I need him.