What does it matter at this point? Surely you're not looking for your soulmate. You just need someone you're not embarrassed to be seen in public with so you can get back in the game and practice your mojo.
Met da wife in 2003 on match (self employed, working from home and the bar bs got old real quick) and we have two amazing kids and 4 furry kids....very happy and I wouldn't change a thing.
Fencer, based on your recent beeb posts, you need to wait for your divorce lawyer to give you the all clear, then visit grudgefuck.com and find a dozen or so grudgies before you dip back into the dating pool. *Disclaimer- I didn't check to see if grudgefuck.com was a real site before posting this. Surf at your own peril, you degenerate freaks
Do what my buddy did. Went to Lithuania for 2weeks, banged three chicks, a 20 year old came to visit him back here for a month.
If you go that route, go to Romania. DANG! been going there a couple times a year for the past 14 years. If I wasn't in a relationship all these years... On the match or any online dating site, just know that there is not always truth in advertising. Don't trust just head shots, look for full body shots to get the complete picture. At this point, I wouldn't worry about a relationship. Meet people, go out, have fun, learn what dating is all about again. Going through a divorce is very emotional and your not going to be a good catch for anyone looking for a real relationship for a little while. Just enjoy experiencing new things for a while.
^^^what he said^^^ It's work....and a lot of it to weed through the lot of em.....but then again....I'm not in the "40 something" camp either.... Still....had fun with a few and a couple of em became friends....but man...the middle age set....if they haven't spent the time on themselves and figured out why their marriage didn't work out....or.....they're still pissed at the ex.....that shit comes out sideways when you least expect it....
+100000 You are an emotional roller coaster right now. Probably in the f**k the world mode, but there is a period of mourning that you may go through. Just keep yourself busy, a new relationship may not be the bestest answer, but it's good to have options.