Would you tell one of your best friends...

Dude, with his personality as you described it, if you tell him he's going to grow to hate you eventually because you're the one telling him.

 

Dude! My daughter is only 4! Why the fuck didn't you tell me?

 

I guess I'm the odd one out because I talk to people about their jobs all the time. Honestly, I would probably tell the wife and let her break the news.

 

Anonymous video link.

 

If this is the case it may be better hearing it from you. Without taking this the wrong way, and without you actually searching, is there a way to verify this information? Do you believe the people who are telling you she is in porn? How much of a shit storm would occur if she wasn't, but her dad goes batshit crazy on her thinking she is?

 

Isn't it amazing how desensitized HR makes ya? Like I always tell my wife ... I'm not firing them. I'm telling them they suck at x. This is nothing.

I'd tell him. What'll happen when he does find out and then learns you knew all along and kept it from him?

 

Are we talkin' titties on a webcam porn or cupcakes, midgets, and donkey stuff? In any case, probably wouldn't get involved in any potential drama of telling dude. One one hand, it's kind of a bummer for the family, but on the other, the gal has taken a skill and is possibly earning a livin' from it.

 

I would trust this person with my life.

 

I wouldn't even think for one second that I should tell him. None of my business, none of your business. A good friend would not get mad because you knew and didn't tell him. It's a job she chose. She's not breaking any laws. She's an adult. No way I would tell him.

 

Dits,

Regardless of veracity of source, no upside to you in telling.
If the dad is abrasive, well, there are consequences to behaviour, and sadly, someone disclosing that knowledge may be one of them.

As others have said; zero upside. even net neutral is a loss. and the downside potential is huge.

If you need to get it out, go tell it to the wind, but not to the dad, nor anyone else.

 

There are many colorful words used to describe me. Desensitized is a nicer one

 

Tell him about the beeb....we'll do it.

 

"You don't know me, but I was recently sent this and told to forward it to you. Click below for this one weird trick your daughter can do."

 

I don't know your friend so it's a judgement call on your part. You can deny ever having knowledge if it comes up, but you have to be comfortable with lying to your friend. Would he rather hear it from you than someone else?

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Good luck.

 

Been thinking about this since you asked the question...would I want to know? Yeah, I would. I would want a chance to speak with her, caution her to be careful, and prepare the padded room for my wife, because if she ever found out it would destroy her.

 

Yep, keep it to yourself. Let someone else do it if they want.

Do you still see her at times? That would be a bit awkward knowing.

 

What if you tell him and he asks you if you rubbed one out?

 

Holy shit that's funny!