What if the buddy is into porn and finds the video of his daughter himself? That could be way worse then telling him. Sucky situation, he he.
You should invite her to your office so you can have a sit down on your couch and talk about her life choices.........
I agree, it could be way worse if he finds out himself. Really are you guys going to act like you don't look at porn? That kind of information is very hard to keep quiet. One person knows, then reality is 20 probably know. "hey did you hear about so and so their daughter is doing pornos". I would appreciate the heads up especially if finding out is imminent anyways. Better from a friend than enemy. I wouldn't be happy but that would be because of my daughters poor life choices not because a friend tried to save me some grief.
There are just way too many chicks doing porn. I bet half of us know, directly or inderectly, a woman who's done it. If that's what she's into...whatever. But I figure it's a tough thing to keep secret.
Travis, that is SO WRONG!!! No, I have not seen it. Someone casually mentioned it to me about a month ago at a party and I didn't think much of it. I got a call today from another close friend who had seen it. Apparently, a bunch of people in this town have seen it or know about it, but I've been told that I should be the one to let him know about it before someone drops it on his head... I guess they think I'm good at letting people know about that kind of stuff, but I'm not sure it's my place to do so. Yes, I've known this kid since she was a toddler. And no, I will not watch it. But I'm going through the issues that dobr24 just mentioned. The friend has a rather caustic personality and he's going to piss someone off sooner or later (he often does) and somebody will toss it in his face.
Actually thinking about it..I was initially of the heck no variety...but really I would want my buddy to tell me, than to find out on my own. The last thing I would want is for everyone to know and I'm the last one to find out. That would be more difficult to deal with.