The unofficial official "SMMFH" thread

I'm staying with the old definition. YMMV.

 

Oooh baby, women do want sweet and gentle - but not the beta version. They want the bad ass cop that knocks teeth out like chicklets and hits the gym 5 days a week - the man that oozes testosterone - but also comes home and snuggles with her and tells her how pretty she is over and over again - leaving her feel like she needs nothing else. Then making her a burrito in blanket and dicking her down good, falling asleep afterwards while holding hands together and watching Harry Potter. The fucking ferro rocher of men. Tough exterior, gooey inside, and a good nut to go with it.

Joking Aside:
How many women are taking their own pills and seeing the following out of equally entitled men:

Demands that we be ready to fuck, work 40 hours a week, raise the kids, respect their fragile manhood, and iron their shirts - but you get nothing in return for your efforts. I am going to lock you into marriage and punish you when you want to actually be treated like a human being instead of a working sex doll. What the fuck do men bring with them except expectations of porn star house wives that also bring in 70K a year so they can fuck off on their projects?

What are the benefits there besides 30 seconds of half-limp missionary and a "thank you baby" before they roll over and snore ?

If I want to cook and clean and take care of myself and my own place - but invite a stud in on my own time to fill the void - I hate men or I am a slut.
But the men are liberated and thinking on a MTGOW level?
Imagine that.

It goes both ways - maybe everyone needs to stop thinking they are entitled to another person and just live their fucking lives being good people. Relationships only work when you communicate boundaries and expectations - and figure out if you can both meet them. They also only work when you are two people coming together to get through this shit life and have fun before you die. Expecting someone to fill your needs that is incapable of filling your needs is most of the problem - you know immediately or soon into a relationship if you are going to work or not - most people are so lonely that they throw on the rose colored glasses to make all those red flags just appear to be flags.

Stop this shit.
This is the problem.
Quit blaming women and start blaming yourselves - same goes for the reverse.
Bunch of entitled whiners - all of humanity. Gah.

Anyways, here's Wonderwall.

 

Wait, didn't you lock Dern into the marriage?

 

I was not highlighting my own experiences

I certainly did. I didn't want to die and leave the kiddos with nothing.

 

Sounds like him though.

 

Oof. I completely disagree.

 

So Dern is better than nothing?

 

Not really - I love the man - and my line of thinking at the time was not being married meant that he wouldn't automatically receive all of the benefits from my death to take care of the kiddos. There are lots of legal headaches involved in claiming money if you aren't married. If I died - he would be the sole provider and he needs to be the sole beneficiary so the girls aren't stricken to poverty before they are old enough to be cared for.

 

Dern would just put out the red light if necessary.

 

Anyways - the comments weren't meant to be an exhibit on how fucked up I am.

It was just that the dichotomy of what is acceptable for a man, is not acceptable for a woman.
Men can use women as a cum dumpster, but the same behavior from a woman makes her a slut.

Don't make no sense.
Take care of your selves and leave the blame for the way your life is going, squarely where it belongs: on yourself.

 

Yep. Most definitely. Stupid in droves on both sides.

The funny part is: The MTGOW movement attracts the very women they say they hate - ladder climbers, status seekers, and women of very little self worth.. And on top of that they hide and lie about their intentions just to get the pink taco. So the pink taco doesn't matter - living life to the fullest without strings does - but they still need to lie to get the pink taco.

Fucking bizarre, really.

 

We prefer you hang around to torment Dern. That's the best of both worlds.

 

We have children together - no matter if I live for 100 years or die on the cutting table next week - he will always be haunted by me.

 

They should just pay for it (although its not worth it). For a few hundred bucks and they go away after, forever.

 

FWIW you and Dern will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

Thanks. He's a good daddy. He will be fine if I kick it. He will also be fine if I don't

Oddly enough - I have made my peace with death and found that it really stems from not liking yourself.
You feel like existence is pointless and you are a POS - death is a big scary thing, being content with yourself changes everything.
I am not gonna know it if I don't wake up, that's the easy part.

I know I will be fine - but in the slim chance I am not: Everyone will be A-okay.

 

I don’t think you’re fucked up. Obviously some truth of what you speak. Honestly I have zero respect for guys who are sluts. It’s so boring to be in a bar and see these douches hit on anything over and over like the retards that they are. Pretending to be all this and a bag of chips, but I guess if they can pull some skank now and again they keep at it. LOL. It’s the same on both sides I suppose.