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Excellent point, poorly presented. Not indicative of range.

 

I don't think you're picking up what I'm putting down All I meant was that in most cases, actions speak louder than words. If you're strong, powerful, capable, etc, then you really don't need to TELL anyone about it, and vice versa.

 

Sorry, too busy working late to put type an essay about it.

 

In general. If you're male.

 

And i'm watching Olympic ice dancing. Ha!

 

I’ve seen it pretty consistently regardless of gender.

 

Remember all those divorce threads? There was a lot of talk in there about the difference in emotional attachment between women and men. Women seem to be able to turn it on and off as it suits their needs, evidenced by the number of women that file for divorce vs the number of men.

 

And of most of the divorces I see more often than not its the ex-wife who is out and dating and partying ASAP but less likely to re-marry (for whatever reason, either disinterest or lack of options) vs the ex-husband who usually takes longer to heal but will be more likely to re-marry down the road.

That is also telling as far as I can see.

 

Well, it's kind of hard to keep the gravy train of alimony flowing once you remarry. Why would you want to stop free money by intentionally shacking up with a new guy?

 

All that tells me is that women have a different drive when it comes to survival.
Maybe, just maybe, we are all animals deep down and women operate on the genetic disposition to be taken care of (not speaking of financially here). Just a suspicion, no basis in fact. BUT - I do know based on the way women operate, is that they plan for the failure. They can often see shit hitting the fan well before it happens and they plan for the event. What you see as woman immediately moving on and cutting ties, may have been years of of one problem after another building up and pushing her over the edge. She checked out a long fucking time ago and endured because she loved you.

Changes in routine, changes in intimacy, not engaging in emotional conversation, going out with friends more, new hobbies away from the house, taking a job when they haven't had one before, Deep cleaning and decluttering...these are red fucking flags to talk to your damn woman about what is happening in your relationship - it doesn't mean the relationship is over if you notice these things, there could be perfectly logical explanations for all of them. But, it is worth it to open the lines of communication if you notice something different. The biggest thing that is to our advantage when we are prepping flight... you don't notice.

As a disclaimer here: This isn't fact. This is just based on my anecdotal experience - it isn't all women, it many not even be some women. Hell, I may be so far off that I am in outerspace here. But I have successfully pointed out to a few of my male friends that their women are planning for a life without them. Most of them don't even want to address it, they just hang on until it finally ends. It's bizarre. Talk to each other, nothing gets solved when you continually ignore something.



I can't tell what you feel as a man. I can only see what you express - so, maybe a better way to phrase it would be : Men express the emotional range of a teaspoon.

 

I don't disagree....and if more men understood this and knew how to work with/around it, this society would be much less of the shitshow it is today

 

Man...I can't wait to go in Monday and show them what I have learned. Who knew you could rub fat cocks together while at work.

 

Don't forget to bring the oil.

 

Yeah, but there would be a lot fewer cougars around for us to comfort in their times of need.

 

Da fuq you know about cougars, cradle robber??

 

I saw a documentary. Some online video source. Redtube, I think?

Anyways, looked like they have a lot of fun in their older years. Might have to give one a try.

 

Like riding a CBX. Old, slow and heavy but still a shit ton of fun.

 

Netflix The Graduate and enjoy it with the lil lady.