So be it. I only get one trip through this thing called life. No point in wasting it with someone who doesn't want to be around anyone.
I have a remedy. You may get punched in the face. You may get an awesome cooked dinner. In other words, it doesn’t matter what you do so you might as well do something YOU like. Don’t ask for forgiveness later.
And did you know, that when your wife is in the midst of a hot-flash, and turns to you and says, "I wish YOU had to go through this!", that the appropriate response is NOT, "Like I don't???" I instantly felt like one of those slow-motion crash-test dummies on TV as soon as I said that. She came across the room to me like a Vampire, it was like she became smoke and was instantly upon me.
12 years is a long ass time, should be over soon, seriously. One thing that helped the boss oddly enough was birth control pills, might be worth asking her to talk to her doc about it if you can find a moment of lucidity. I'd still suggest full protective gear when discussing it no matter how sane she seems at the moment....
I KNOW it's a long friggin' time but the BC pills are out. Already been a removal procedure in the torrid zone years ago.
Not the point, it was about the hormones being more balanced, wasn't actually for keeping her from being knocked up.
Ah got ya. Overall there is no fix, just look at it as it could be a LOT worse if she wasn't doing that And seriously it should be over soon.
Not sure how long it lasts but I can tell you I came home to an empty now I’m paying her 2 grand a month, and it’s actually worth it.... Best wife for 23 years then 2 years of hell with hourly mood swings and constant nagging and letting me know all my faults...
You need to take up fishing. She'll be mad about you being gone all the time fishing but she is gonna be mad at you anyway so you might as well go do something.
I stay active but I haven't taken the fishing gear out in a while. Always relaxing for sure. (It's not always mad...just friggin' unpredictable as to when the unit is malfunctioning.)
I'm sure we have to an extent but oddly as fat as I am no moobs. Little bummed about that to be honest.