Not a dude sanctuary and not interrupting. But we all know some guy(s) that would sleep with ANY woman. I've never found that to be remotely true for women.
I actually remember the exact moment I fully became aware of that. In a motel just outside Orlando, summer 1992. Sharing my room with a friend of mine who had been in a relationship with a pretty hot chick for about three years. He let a couple of chicks into our room that had me wondering if he was taking drugs without my knowledge. I was in the middle of a long dry spell and I still wouldn't have touched either one with a 10-foot pole. And he would have banged them if I hadn't thrown them out when one tried to kiss me.
You keep pointing out that some people like to go out with no intention of hooking up. Granted. My point was, and is, if males and females go out with the intention of getting laid, females will be able to find a willing partner far more often than males and can probably be a bit more selective.
I didn't over look that - My second point being that in a bar scene - there are likely more available men than available women. Of course women can be more selective if men are in high supply. Just like on ladies night when men can be more selective. Try being the ugly girl on ladies night and getting laid.
Everyone has to play the odds. Sure there are more women on ladies night, there are usually more men too because the drinks you buy for the ladies cost less. Even on ladies night, the guys are far more likely to go home alone than a woman that want some.
All she has to do is go to a different bar.... Guys can go to ladies night and walk out solo with ease
Similar quality story, same realization moment - Roommate in college brought two hammered and coked out trolls back from the bar with "us". He was trying like crazy to keep me hanging out when we got to the house and I didn't want to be the downer that ruined his night. I tried to act like I was into one of the girls but she could tell I didn't want to touch her at all. So she sweetened the pot with "don't worry, I can be your girlfriend if that's what you're worried about". "Good night John, hope you get to bang them both"
Okay, so what I am getting here is: Women who want to get laid - spread your cheeks behind the 7-11. Dudes - go to one of those “massage parlors” Sounds fulfilling. And yes - I know we were talking merely about getting laid...
Could be a problem in the future for China and India one day . To many men not enough women. https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/?utm_term=.1d7bf3095194
Because they hate eachother (not all of them fall here obviously). Many female incels have become factions in the radical feminist groups that think all hetero sex is rape. Many male incels have become gym rats that hate women who don’t try as hard as they do to stay fit. So even if they are similar ratings on the looks scale - fat chicks are a no go. Basically - just a bunch of whiny, hypocritical, entitled, twats.