Caring for Parents

You're in my thoughts, Rick.

+1 to what PieMan and Metalhead's uglier twin said.

 

I'm sorry Rick. May she rest in peace.

 

Sorry for your loss, Rick. May she rest in peace.

 

Peace and strength to you and your wife, Rick. You and your wife don't need a pat on the back for taking good care of your mother (at least from me), but you've got one anyway.

 

Very sorry for your loss Rick. You did good. Here's to the awesome wife.

 

You are a good son. Sorry for the loss.

 

Sorry for your loss, Rick. Hopefully she's in a better place now.

Damn rough week. Doyle's father passed away on Monday.

 

Damn. I didn't see that. Hey Rog, thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

 

Damn. RIP

 

Sorry to hear Rick. It's tough. I remember thinking of the mixed blessing when my dad passed away from cancer.

 

Rick,

My condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Mom.

As much as this is a release for her, it's still hard to lose your Mom. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Craig

 

He hasn't posted about it.

 

I was wondering, when you feel that you are able, would you be willing to do a post that detailed how you dealt with all the issues and concerns you had when you initially started the thread? I know that many are of the age that they will soon come to face your situation and what you learned through the experience would be of great value.
My condolences for your loss.

 

Be glad to. Are there any specifics that would be helpful?

Just as an intro, the decision to move her to our house was both for her benefit and ours. We knew it would be tough and a lot of work. That was offset, at least in part, because we no longer felt guilty for missing a day visiting the Nursing Home, or leaving after a short visit. We could keep doing what we needed to do, and still check on her frequently enough to make her feel secure. She was absolutely more happy at the house than at the facility, but the level of care required would have to play into your decision.

I'll go into detail later, but it is a LOT of work and I have developed a profound appreciation for the people that deal with geriatrics and hospice.

 

Rick, condolences. Really glad you value the time and that your last memory is of her at peace. Hope that is comfort.

Hope Doyle can say the same. Thoughts with the two of you.

I may drive down - if so, I will chime in and see about doing lunch.

 

Sorry for your loss, Rick.
Sounds like you're sure you made her last year as good as it could be, which should be a comfort.

 

Rick......good on you guys for stepping up.

 

My condolences, always tough to loose a parent.....

 

Hearts and mind, Rick. May your Mother rest in peace.

 

I'm going to wait a little while for you to come off the roller coaster. I've been through the death of one parent, so I know it takes a while. Perhaps in a week or so I'll get back in with some questions.