Divorce help - God Damn Epidemic

Still getting texts, asking if I go in the house when they are not there, saying stuff is missing, or moved. I think his paranoia (i.e. the "I got you on game camera" when I was 80 miles a way running the cherry blossom 10 miler, crap) has spread to her. Why they think I give two shits about their lives, as long as they provide and take care of the kids when they have them; which they haven't, last time I got them he was still in last nights diaper, neither had brushed their teeth and were wearing yesterdays clothes....

But I digress, and this is why my x-in-laws are coming to my house today to see the kids.

 

Women do their fair share of dishonor.

 

Ummm I hope you are documenting all this.

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Detroit man who won $30 million in lottery during divorce must share with ex-wife

https://www.nydailynews.com/news/na...0190620-wldvxgf2fjemhgasbwpdaawcvi-story.html

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Dude needs to find a stranger on a train...

 

Dude should’ve kept his damn mouth shut until divorce was final, move to a new state and then claim the lotto winnings

 

Yup. Had that discussion with my lawyer too. It’s all up for grabs until the gavel drops.

 

And that is one of the GREATEST days of your life. I promise you.

 

It’s already dropped for me

 

oh...I misread you post's context and kind of inferred you were in "pending" status as well.

Congrats anyway on your freedom.

 

Tally up another. As i think i had predicted earlier in this thread, we’re both being totally civil to each other. I’m under contract on a house 1.5 miles away.

Separating finances is a royal pain. Working out how to tell our 5 yr old.

No fights since we decided to split. It was like releasing the pressure when we were both about to burst. Still sucks.

 

NO WAY!! GET THE FUGG OUTTA HERE!!!!!

 

I’ve been reading these type of statements and it’s not exactly the greatest days of my life. I came from court with joint custody and no child support, BUT I don’t get to see my kids on a daily basis. I have them for seven days, as does the ex. I’ve paved my life to be with my family and now the family is broken.
I was the one who filed for divorced. Looking back, I would do it the same way. The ex would have continued to be the devilish fruitcake that she had become.
She now sees the error of her ways. It’s now the kids have to pay for our relationship woes.

 

It probably sucks royally not seeing the kids everyday, I know that would kill me inside too.

The one main thing is that the kids may not be in a fighting, toxic environment any longer, and that actually may be the best thing. Having kids seeing their folks go at it all the time is probably not a great situation.

But you've said the part that I always don't here. Stay strong.

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That pretty much describes the house I grew up in. My folks battled nearly continuously from around my 12th or 13th birthday until my dad died when I was 50. I'll never understand why they stayed together all those years in the hell they created. It really messed with my younger brother who was under 10 when it got to the continuous battle stage.

Today, my brothers and I all agree that we and my parents would be/have been better off if they had divorced by the time I was 16.

 

Yeah. It sucks. But it actually allows for you to have some balance in your life. You get to realize your time with them is better time because when they’re not there you can take care of other stuff.

When I don’t have my son. That’s when I mow my lawn. So when I have him those chores aren’t on my docket. We can go have fun.

I work extra hours on the dayside not have him so I can work shorter days when I do.

At least that’s how I try to find balance in it.

 

I was merely speaking my mind and I too was not seeing anyone mention some of things that I was experiencing/feeling after my recent divorce.
Things such as dating, explaining new woman friends around my kids, the ex! . . . now attempting to reconcile .
I find myself not looking to date just any woman. I’m not looking for just any PAWG. I already made one bad mistake and I’m definitely not trying to go through that again. It’s definitely a process that needs to take place and it ain’t easy.

 

@speedluvn - what's with the sig?
Did a mod do you?

 

He wishes.

 

Me every time this thread gets bumped after a decent hiatus......