Some old guy had my girlfriend as his phones screensaver

you know those rare moments when a perfect meme comes along? its like the 3rd bowl of porridge...

 

Also, think Francis realized he is also an abuser and probably narcissist, because it seems he uses gaslighting on this girl.

 

Interested in this. I’m not aware of it. Explain?

 

So my guess based on the limited info posted by Francis. Her last "boyfriend", who was abusive was her "pimp". She got her new pictures/nudes taken to post on websites to find "clients" since left old BF/pimp. She probably does work with the older guy but they arent working 12 hour days selling trucks or truck accessories or whatever, the older guy is getting a few dollars from her to drive her to 'clients" and wait outside in case of trouble. He even crashed her car probably driving her home from a client Some other things sort of fishy, like she disappeared or went dark for weeks at a time early in the relationship, guessing she was seeing "clients", maybe even out of the country?
Also, 2 people in their 20s waiting 10 months for sex because he says "forgets the female if has sex too quick"? GTFO with that, she probably thought he was not into women and would be easy mark to meet her parents to hide her escorting. She probably does like him which is why shes not taking his money and hes a good shoulder to cry on, gives him some booty (not literally) to keep him around, etc but still wants to keep pulling tricks.
She also told Francis its "way worse than it seems", this would fit the bill as way worse.

 

this will explain it better than I can

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...verywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting

 

This thread reminds me of when your tracking number says "out for delivery" and you see the UPS man drive right by your house.

Then you go check your tracking number again and it says "delivery attempt made".

 

Sounds like Donnie T - the Gaslighting.

 

Out of that list I’ve done two things. I can’t say I’m a gaslighter or abuser but sometimes I do catch myself being possessive. Truth be told I did fuck a few other girls in the last few months because I was tired of her shit, maybe that’s my excuse, idk. When that happened I noticed my accusations of her increasing. I will admit to that and do acknowledge it. I definitely need to do some introspection in that regard. I definitely did project my own actions onto her. I’m not saying she isn’t in the wrong as well, but I did do those things.

 

Da fug you talkin’ about?

 

The HF is the epitome of satisfaction.

 

I’m in entomology school things are difficult rn

 

Harbor Freight?

 

When does the Crying Game ending come into play with this story.

 

Haha!

 

I think this one just officially jumped the shark.

 

what happened to that 100k+./yr DOD job you had? now youre studying bugs.....

 

Bro if your out sleeping with other girls WTF are you doing here complaining about anything she does? GTFO with that nonsense. I get it, your young and blah blah blah, but time to put your big boy pants on and grow up.

You sleeping around makes any of her drama null and void. And trying to find advice about what you should do about her dram is insulting to everyone here and makes you look like a fool. Your cheating and upset at her? Come on man. I like entertainment as much as the next beeb member but that pisses me off so do us a favor and just say thread over and go away.