She came over last night to my place cause she forgot some clothes, she said Eddie from work drove me, he knows ur my bf, she said come downstairs so he can put a face to the name. He met me then pulled out his phone to show me pics of his bosses Bugatti, when he did I saw this 50 some year old had a silhouette photoshoot pic of my 23 yr old gf on the back of his phone. I pulled her aside and said what the fuck was that? She said he just thought the photo looked cool. I then texted her today and said we need to talk about this because this is not fucking ok. Link to image https://ibb.co/YWqYqhF Tell me I’m overthinking.
Added to OP at the bottom, not only that, he had taken photos of her from the passenger seat like some pedo. I went full alert mode. Had some pics of some other chick too but don’t know what that was. None of this sits well with me. Feels like a violation of my fucking space He was scrolling through his pics like it was no big deal and he’s like “so you’re the racer?” And shook my hand, then when he opened his phone to show me pics I saw the backgrounds and I was like what in the fuck
He is pretty obviously attracted to your girl. She may or may not realize this. I would ask her to put some distance between them.
Relax, if she fucking him it's already to late. Just see if you can borrow the Bugatti some weekend then kick her to the curb.
I texted her today said call me immediately cause I can’t brush that aside I need answers, she called ASAP and we’re goin to dinner tomorrow and I gotta explain to her it’s not ok, reason being HOW did he see it? She has nudes from that same photoshoot in the same folder. He saw you scrolling and saw the nudes? You sent voluntarily? What else did you send and why? It’s just fucking shady. Need some third party opinions cause I’m very heated
That’s what I was gonna tell her but of course she knows that, no male anywhere has a photo of any chick unless he’s fucked or trying to. Of course he’s attracted to her she’s a 23 year old Croatian chick and he’s a grimey 50 some fat American.
If there was anything shady there she would not be bringing the fuck around me, he knows I’m the BF, it was just so weird for an old guy to have that. I have to ask her HOW he came to know of the photo.
Who are you heated at and why? How long have you two been dating? What’s your girlfriend’a attitude when you talk about this subject?
A year, I’ve met the parents (big deal in our cultures). I call her Mrs. (my last name) etc so I can see that happening. I’m heated at her. She was calm she said he just thought it was cool and wanted it for the background