That’s true. Girls were not near as aggressive back then, as they are now. We actually had to work at it, to get laid!!!! Now a days, my son has girls walking up to him and entering their cell phone number into his phone.
They're aggressive towards some men, not all of them. That's the secret side benefit of male/female relationships and social sexual interactions going digital, and more broadly feminism's influence on how women generally approach it. It affords a smaller subset of dudes to take full advantage of the majority of women. I mean it's probably always been like that to some extent, but going digital has REALLY increased that sphere of influence from your local town/state to literally international. According to those app's own statistics, men swipe right on about 50% of chicks, women swipe right on about 5% of men. Men are far less picky, and an average dude is happy to match with an average girl. The opposite isn't the case any longer as it might have been in earlier time. This also becomes exacerbated by the fact that women generally don't date down. Universities are now graduating 6 women for every 4 men and prior to age 30 women actually out earn men (I don't recall if that was everywhere or mostly in major cities). So the system has really become up ended. So what's great about apps like this is that upper crust of guys can really slay, at the expense of alot of the rest don't get much action out of them . But these ladies out there have unknowingly (or maybe knowingly) turned themselves into a modern day harem being shared by the 5% they swipe right on, which I find hilarious....and ironic
Yeah this is not a good time to be a young man looking to start a family. Women have all the options and are trying them all without shame. Chads doing alright.
Yeah....that ain't no shit. Friday night was the Homecoming celebration for my son's football rec league club. So they had a shindig on the field with rides for the kids, BBQ catering, raffles and all that shizz. Denise and I took the kid so he could be with his buddies and be a part of it all. We got to watch the shenanigans from the top of the bleachers in "sniper" mode and it was almost scary how aggressive the girls are/were. There were a gaggle of them around him and his buddies like sharks stalking prey. You could tell which sharks liked which boys too...there were a couple that were always in my son's proximity or working for his attention. It's fun to have those "fly on the wall" moments at this point...I get to know if the Alex I know is the same as the Alex everyone else gets to know...and he's genuine. So, it's also fun to watch because I see who he socializes with. I don't "Helicopter Parent", but, it doesn't hurt to not be clueless about his social circle.
My wife buys me motorcycles and bicycles and thinks it's cool that I take my MC to the track while everyone else's husband plays golf and watches football or whatever the fuck they do. I don't always understand her but I'll take it.
The ironic part is that once these "sweetheart of Sigma Chi" girls hit the age where they want children they can't understand why all the winners they used to "date" have no interest in settling down with a really "experienced" girl. Suddenly they find themselves sifting through the losers to see which one is desperate or stupid enough to put up with their shit. In the end, it's the guys who are the big winners and the modern women who are the losers. And when the guys who got all the pussy they wanted look for a girl who actually valued herself, but may or may not be a great beauty, to be the mother of their children. Women have really figuratively and literally screwed themselves when it comes to the things that are most important in life while chasing the feminist ideal. They can't differentiate between love and lust. The number of bitter middle-aged women is large and growing larger but, as usual, they blame the men for their predicament.
I'm going to have to disagree Mike....NOBODY wins in all this. But, you're correct in saying women that want to "have it all" to have career and wait to have kids when they're 35 have mistakenly overplayed their hand. A 35 year old single man isn't looking for a 35 year old single woman to have kids with. We're all still creatures of our instincts and men are looking for a mother for their children....women are looking for someone who will provide for their children. Is that sexist and not politically correct? YEP..sure as hell is, and our most basic needs don't give a shit about feelings. I've already had conversations with my son about the value and devaluation of men and women in the Sexual Marketplace. I figure why make him figure it out by himself. Just hand him the cheat code.
You're right, I should have said that the guys who get all the girls are the real winners but even they have given up the opportunity to find women with their heads screwed on right. As a society, we have lost the basics that lead to solid families which are what makes for a strong culture that lasts for generations. Everyone is encouraged to think of their own wants first and foremost and to ignore their responsibilities to their children. We are on the edge of being conquered by other societies because of the weakness that being egocentric engenders. Rome is falling and few are able to see it.
So you know who the winners and losers are Sounds like a bunch of baloney to me, You all sound like a bunch of overthinking losers to me.
Attention, because as soon as you give them what the want, it will always be something more on a never ending cycle of wasting 2 peoples time. You can save a lot of time just meeting a girl and right away tell her nothing will come of this, lets just have fun, no strings, I'll buy you dinner but if you want a bank that guy can give you way more than me