It's a struggle at times. I Just decided a few years ago that I'm going to make this whole self employment thing work, and she's more than welcome to come along for the ride. Or not.
Sorry pal...after 23 years I let mine go not back someone else up!! It is not going to ever happen for you. I have never had one that would back me 100%
Hate to tell ya but apparently your wife has a sister. I have to admit my wife has stood by me for everything thus far, even when didn't agree with me. They are rare though. She is e only one I've ever been with like that which is one of the many reasons I married her.
If I wasn't already marked, I'd say "6xidb?" Yarn, don't get mad, I couldn't help it. Ya boy left the door wide open
Mine backs me up, and also shuts me down.....LOL. We support each other....it isn't easy, but we work at it like any good relationship. I would really like to jump on Tyler's bike and do a race and she really doesn't want me too. So much so that she said, go buy a racing go-kart or dragbike and do that....you and road racing just don't seem to mix well. In reality I've proven her correct. When I road race I tend to crash, and since I owe millions between the loans on my business and my building, I can't afford to take that risk and screw her and my kids. Oh well, I bought a dragbike and a Superkart. LOLOLOL
This is how mine is. I think sometimes getting shut down is support. Largely depends on how it's done.
Dealing with the issues I have with self-employment, family issues......stuff that is typical in marriage. Having to go to battle on two fronts gets tiresome.