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Five stages of grief. Lost a buddy yesterday.

Discussion in 'General' started by G 97, Aug 30, 2020.

  1. Pride & Joy

    Pride & Joy Well-Known Member

    G, I'm very sorry for your loss. Don't hesitate to talk with someone if needed, no need to make a crappy situation even worse.
     
  2. sdiver

    sdiver Well-Known Member

    Very sorry to hear about your loss. Condolences.
     
  3. motion

    motion Nihilistic Member

    Sorry to hear about losing your buddy. Make sure to keep your communication going with people close to you. You'll need the support.
     
  4. speedluvn

    speedluvn Man card Issuer

    Sorry for your loss. Maybe focus your current & future emotions on their kids to help you with your grieving process.
     
  5. cha0s#242

    cha0s#242 Ignorance and prejudice and fear walk hand in hand

    Very sad to read. Sorry for your loss. Nothing else to say.
     
  6. acorn27

    acorn27 4 out of 3 people in the world struggle with math

    Man, that’s just heart breaking. So sorry to hear. My sincere condolences Garth.
     
  7. beac83

    beac83 "My safeword is bananna"

    A very sad story with an ending that sucks.
    Sorry for your loss, Garth.
     
  8. Phl218

    Phl218 .

    Man, that sucks.

    hope the kids have godparents that stand by their promise
     
  9. bleacht

    bleacht Well-Known Member

    That's terrible. I'm sorry for your loss. Just one bad decision is all it takes.
     
  10. Chino52405

    Chino52405 Well-Known Member

    Sorry for all of your loss. The ones that didn't have to happen are the hardest.
     
  11. cBJr

    cBJr Well-Known Member

    What an awful situation. Sorry for your loss.
     
  12. SirCrashAlot

    SirCrashAlot Well-Known Member

    Sorry for your loss . Lost my brother the same way.
     
  13. Shocker

    Shocker Well-Known Member

    Sorry for your loss and I feel you have every right to be pissed right now. Your buddy was selfish and decided to do something foolish instead of taking his initial punishment. Now there are children that will have to grow up without their parents. :(
     
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  14. AMac

    AMac Well-Known Member

    Sorry for your loss Garth
     
  15. mattf

    mattf Banned-a-lama-ding-dong.

    Holy crap.

    That sucks on so many levels.

    I’m sorry, OP
     
  16. Dave K

    Dave K DaveK über alles!

    I got nothing, man. I'm hearing almost weekly about people, some close friends, some distant, some I barely knew but should have known who are passing away and it's just piling up in my head.

    When my mom passed late last year it was expected and "easy" to deal with. It's all the unexpected that just wear you out mentally.
     
  17. PHILJ

    PHILJ Active Member

    I feel for you Garth
    One year lost my best, 23 years flying for the navy.Ran over in San Diego riding his gsxr mastercylinder lock up.F18 fly over was awesome wish he was still here loved him
     
  18. TXFZ1

    TXFZ1 Well-Known Member

    Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers.
     
  19. Jedb

    Jedb Professional Novice :-)

    Sorry for your loss @G97
    Find your top 5 friends and put them on rotation as you go through the stages of greif.

    Maybe focusing all that anger on doing what you can to help the kid(s).
     
  20. YamahaRick

    YamahaRick Yamaha Two Stroke Czar

    I'm sorry to hear the news. Not sure how I can help, but ask me anything so I can find out if I can. I'd be honored.
     

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