see a females pay too...."Child support payments to two baby daddies" https://www.nydailynews.com/snyde/n...0190912-mtnkyvabyfannex7vbec5pbpwe-story.html
I was baffled by the calculator for child support. Wife and i make within $5k of each other. She might actually make more with bonuses. I was going to have to pay her over $900/month based on the support calculator, because of the amount i make. Ex-wife also agreed that was ridiculous. We share a google docs spreadsheet and split their actual monthly expenses. This notion that people who make more have kids who cost more to feed and clothe is stupid.
I'll toss this out there. I seem to have found an amazing woman. SO FAR . no crazy, no drama, no Ex, He died (cancer) Last 3 months have been really good, But ain'tgonna remarry. That will screw it up.
So... She is the money maker, but BOTH baby daddies get custody. Something must be wrong in her world for that.... Good to see the shoe on the other foot
I thought the same thing. Something must be wrong in her life (work schedule?) that she's not saying. Wait a minute! You WERE my idol until you posted the above B.S. Three months in and you come onto the beeb professing your love for this woman! Com'n man! Your man-card has been placed on a probationary status just cause. Congratulations! I hope it works out for.
I got nothing. Still married to my first wife- for 23yrs. I think it helped that I didn't get married till I was 35, and no first kid till 40.- I could be their grandpa! But I'm not.
You need to stop acting like gawd damn giddy school girl. It’s unbecoming of you Ex Ms. Fencer, I’m still here for you should you need support.
You want her # and address? You seem like the kind of man who enjoys misery Plus, you need to give me your Motorcycle Card. If a 5 day cross country bike trip with boobies in your back doesn't make you giddy, Well.... Your life is misplaced
That "Special Someone", will reach out to me. I will provide my motorcycle card to her to give to you. You won't have anymore issues from Ms. Fencer, she will be busy Enjoy your trip! You deserve it. Ms. Fencer, PM me. You have a motorcycle card to collect.
Looks like I’m joining the club. She moves out Monday. Luckily we are getting along fine so there’s no war between us and just want what’s best for our boys (3 and 6).
Damn. That sucks. Every time I hear this scenario, I wonder if cohabitation and seeing other people would be an option. But, kids are resilient, and will be fine. Hell, I survived it, and look at me!
I considered many options before our separation. The cohabitation would seem to just prolong the inevitable. As far as turned out fined, I'm sorry to hear. Even though my ex acted like a pure FRUITCAKE, what guided me was my kids' best interest. I never experienced the getting along fine. We weren't talking for quite some time and I had to end misery. Good Luck!